5 Ways to Rekindle the Flame in Your Relationship

5 Ways To Rekindle The Flame In Your Relationship

Love is still very much there, there is no doubt about it. However, life, its hazards and obligations mean that the desire between you has run out of steam a little. There are several ways to react to such a situation. Either you let it happen and it is almost certain that your romance will go straight to the wall. What a shame to get to this point while the feelings are still there. Don’t panic, there are solutions to save a story that started so well, especially on the sexual level. It would just take a little help to restart a machine that routine has tended to rust. Here are five tips among many others to spice up your life as a couple. Thus, rediscover the osmosis that we feel at the start of a relationship during cuddly moments. You and your other half are volcanoes just waiting to wake up.

câlin couple, activités au village naturiste du Cap d'Agde

1. Kiss with passion

A relationship usually begins with a sweet kiss. It is the gateway to many other carnal exchanges. Remember the thrill that went through you when you touched your partner’s lips for the first time. It is therefore essential to constantly try to rediscover this feeling. So forget the little “bottom” kisses given mechanically and without enthusiasm. Don’t hesitate to arouse your partner’s desire to go further by kissing them languorously, as often as possible.

2. Maintain passion through technology

The smartphone has many detractors regarding its propensity to deteriorate human relationships. However, it can be very useful when it comes to conveying more or less suggestive messages. The famous “sexting” or the possibility of receiving emails in real time have allowed many people to build up a certain excitement by exchanging a few well-felt flirtations. This 2.0 epistolary relationship can sometimes even be accompanied by a few suggestive photos or videos (if the recipient obviously gives his approval) encouraging them to continue their (d)debates in more depth and in person.

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3. Leaving the house, a good way to spice up your life as a couple

There’s nothing like a romantic getaway to a place that will allow you to escape, just for a moment, from an environment that constantly reminds you of the little worries of everyday life. This sometimes represses the desire of some people to completely let go and enjoy a special moment. Booking a night in a small charming hotel, for example, gives you the breathing space you need to be completely in the present moment and let yourself go to rediscover, without being disturbed, the body of your loved one. Let your emotions rise at the same pace as the elevator that takes you to your room.

4. Try role-playing

To awaken your libido, why not start developing erotic scenarios? You step into the shoes of characters to whom you make experience situations conducive to the realization of your fantasies. Mutual trust is more than necessary to embark on these adventures together because before getting naked in the literal sense, you have to do it with your emotions. Delivering them without restraint through these fantastical adventures requires courage and a total absence of judgment on everyone’s part. It’s an excellent way to strengthen the bond between the couple. For those who are lacking inspiration, let yourself be tempted by these ideas that have proven themselves:

  • Boss and employee.
  • Two strangers who meet in a bar for a one-night stand.
  • A massage session that goes wrong.
  • The doctor and his or her patient.
  • Teacher and student.


All this must, of course, be completely agreed to by both parties who can stop everything by using a safe word (the famous safeword well known to BDSM enthusiasts).


5. Dare to be libertine

Swinging, mixing, candaulism are all celebrations that give the naughtiest people the opportunity to give free rein to their spiciest inclinations. Next summer, if you don’t yet know where to spend your vacation and you’re interested in experiencing what lies behind these promising terms, book a stay at the naturist village of Cap d’Agde. This paradise for libertines from all over the world offers you the opportunity to experience your sexuality as a couple, without pressure or judgment. On site, find:

  • Private bars and clubs.
  • Saunas and swimming pools.
  • Ready-to-wear boutiques and sex shops.


Everything is there to give you unforgettable moments as long as you and your partner are on the same wavelength.

There are many other tactics to spice up your life as a couple. Up to you !